Or Delinquency Juvenile Delinquency Parents

Or Delinquency Juvenile Delinquency Parents
Lately more and more widespread phenomenon of juvenile delinquency. Even this has been happening since the first. The expert psychologist always peeling problem that never end to this. Juvenile Delinquency, like a black circle that never end. Link connects from time to time, from time to time, from year to year and even from day to day more complicated. Problem of adolescent acquaintances are complex problems that occur in various cities in Indonesia. In line with the current of modernization and technology is growing, then the current relations between the major cities and regions semkain smooth, quick and easy. World of increasingly sophisticated technology, in addition to ease in knowing various information in various media, on the other hand also carries a considerable negative impact extends in various walks of life.
Juvenile delinquency is usually done by teens who failed to undergo the processes of development of his soul, both as a teenager and in his childhood. Childhood and adolescence lasts so briefly, with their physical, psychological, and emotional too quickly. Psychologically, juvenile delinquency is a manifestation of the conflicts are not resolved well on childhood and adolescent perpetrators. Often found that there was trauma in her past, harsh and unpleasant treatment of the environment, as well as trauma to the environmental conditions, such as economic conditions which made him feel inferior.
Deal with juvenile delinquency, it means re-arrange teenage emotions were torn. Emotions and feelings are corrupted because they feel rejected by family, parents, friends, and the environment since childhood, and the failure of the process of development of the adolescent soul. Traumas in his life must be resolved, psychological conflicts that hanging should be resolved, and they should be given a different environment than the previous environment. The question is: who is it all work? Parents Did? While parents are too dizzy to think about work and other living expenses. Was his brother? They also have their own problems, maybe even they also have the same problem. Was the Government? Or who? Not easy to answer. However, providing a good environment from an early age, along with an understanding of the development of our children properly, will help reduce juvenile delinquency. At least not increase the number of cases. "(Source Whandi.net / 1 jan 1970).
Juvenile delinquency, is one of the child? or parents? Because there are many parents who can not act as a parent should. They only provide materials and facilities and facilities for the child without thinking of his inner needs. Parents also often requires a lot of things but forget to set a good example for the child. Actually we forget something when talking about juvenile delinquency, the law of causality. Because, from the delinquency of a juvenile is always crystallized towards external environmental factors that are rarely noticed the closest of environmental factors in this adolescent parents. We always considered that many cases of juvenile delinquency occurs because of poor social environment, such as the influence of friends that are not true, the influence of mass media, to the weakness of one's faith.
When we talk about faith, we question the value and usually forget something, namely the influence of parents. Educated parents who either could be a major factor of onset delinquency sosiopsikologis on myself a teenager. Moreover, if the negative case against the parents of the teenagers, like infidelity, divorce and division of property-gini Gono. Maybe we need to take a new term, parental delinquency.
Parents, often forget that attitude resulted in his children. Because life is not separated from contek-cheating behavior ever. Can also because there is the omission of the behaviors that lead to mistakes, so that one becomes a habit. Parents do not expect him to be good, if parents themselves have not become good. Actually conscience generasai want to call on the â € œJangan teach us of cheating, do not teach us talk dirty, dishonest, lazy learning, lazy worship, too much loved treasure belebihan and forget the Creator, namely Allah.â €?
This paper invites reflection for us as parents, that delinquency is not always synonymous with youth, but that much mischief is done by parents (at home, in society and in government), which eventually also became the inspiration for teenage mischief. Pathetic indeed! (O. Solihin source)
Delinquency parents in family ties
Examples include:
Like say harsh words, like blasphemy or cursing, teach children to fight as child harassed another person, likes to hurt the child physically and psychologically, smoking casually in front of children, dl (moral issues).
Ignoring the implementation of Shari'a, the prayer for example, many of us are also parents who neglect their prayers, neglect their prayers, not even pray, let the kids do not shut aurat daughter, letting her children get along free (dating), letting their children drink-drink hard, etc..

Delinquency parents in the community
Examples include:
Creating an atmosphere that is not productive (their fathers), for example the morning, noon and night gaple like to hang out while playing, or playing chess, even though no use of money, this is the same meaning does not guard her honor, let alone honor of his family (wife and children son)? While the mother-love to get together while his mother berghibah or defamatory, spending money with a consumptive lifestyle that is shopping at the mall or supermarket, luxury lifestyle.Providing a means of disobedience, for example, be a drug dealer, so the bookies, providing a place of entertainment (discotheques).
Educators who are negligent, we can see at school or in college, though educational institution is a safe place to gain knowledge or learning, but in reality many educators are giving a bad example to their students, such immoral acts, persecute protege physically, to sell the material or knowledge for the benefit of education often do sin.Being the owner of the mass media (both print and electronic: newspapers, magazines, tabloids, radio, television, and also the internet) that â € ~ hobiâ € ™ featuring readings, image and spectacle that damage the morals (pornography, violence, and sex) that refuge in the name of the business.
Parental delinquency in governmentExamples include:Like corruption, adopted a policy of raising the cost of education, raise fuel prices, high health care costs, like making promises and then forget about it, like doing the extortion or bribery.Like perpetuate disobedience, gave permission for the business of prostitution / brothel, gambling, a discotheque, liquor factory, on the pretext of its revenue.Blind eye to the problem that caused the business of prostitution, gambling, drugs, liquor circulation, discos, etc..Applying the rules of life that is not true and good, that is Capitalism, Secularism (including Socialism-Communism).
Let us describe one by one advice or advice that we give as parents to our children when we do and not do it:


    We prohibit our children to speak harshly, even though we often speak harshly to our children.

    We prohibit our children brawl or a light hand, and yet we are often persecuted them our children physically, we like to fight in front of our children, like fist fights on the forums when it honored the legislature building in session since they do not agree, that the witness our children live on television.

    We prohibit our children to lie or be honest, but how many lies that we create for our children.

    We prohibit our children taking drugs, even though we own are the users and drug dealers themselves.

    We prohibit our children to mingle freely or going out, when we ourselves are doing the same mix of good free environment of the community, as well as an office environment that is familiar with cheating.

    We prohibit our children drinking and gambling, yet we are the bookies and owners of factories and menuman hard drinker and gambler.

    We prohibit our children to smoke, but dirikita have often burn the money, with smoke in front of their eyes, and we also sell cigarettes and cigarette factory owner.

    We're angry when your child does not pray, or worship, but we like dereliction of duty did not even perform the prayer.

    We advise that our children do not consume pornography impressions, whereas dirikita often watching, reading, accessing porn sites, even we who have the print media, playwright, media buying pornography.

    We prohibit our children to watch television constantly, yet we consume the most major broadcast television to no sleep.

    We often advise our children not to berghibah or slander other people, but who likes berghibah dirikitalah and defame it.

    We are angry when they find out our children and often hang out tonight, but we also do the same thing, sometimes a new Fajr time to go home.

    We advise our children to school diligently, but we too lazy to work, even often absent from the office.

    We complain about why our children are lazy to read, and yet we are also very rarely have a habit of reading.

    We often teach their children that we not fight to his parents, when we used to also like to fight against our parents.

    We are angry when we know children love to steal, and yet we are often stealing state money, or who do not often get a kosher fortune.


And much more naughtiness that we do as parents, who can not mention here. May we not included and have never done mischief as described above. Amen. So what went wrong with the child or juvenile delinquency, would not he very directly proportional to contact us as parents? Wallahuâ € ™ nature

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