Indonesian Ahmadiyya Movement And Mui

    Ahmadiyya Relations with Government
    Jema'at Ahmadiyah Indonesia stood since 1925 and recognized the Government of the Republic of Indonesia cq Minister of Justice of the Republic of Indonesia as a legal entity in 1953. It was stated in the ministerial decree dated 13 March 1953, the number JA.5/23/13 contained in the State Gazette of the Republic of Indonesia No. 22 dated March 31, 1953. This provision was amended by deed changes that have been announced in the State Gazette No. 3 of 1989, and the State Gazette No. 65 dated August 15, 1989. The recognition was reinforced by the statement of the Ministry of Religious Affairs was tangga111 March 1968 concerning the rights of life for all religious organizations in Indonesia that the Articles of Association and Rules The stairs have been formally authorized by the Minister of Justice as a legal entity. While the Lahore Ahmadiyya sect, as has been stated before, since 1929 has been incorporated.

    However, the Indonesian Ulema Council (MUI) in the II National Congress held in Jakarta (26 Mei1 June 1980) has issued a fatwa which ruled that the teaching is jema'at outside Islam, misguided, and misleading. Until now, the Ahmadiyah Qadian flow still has not acknowledged its existence by the MUI. MUI attitude, according to the Indonesian Ahmadiyya Jema'at view, contrary to Pancasila and the Constitution of 1945 and other legislation and also with the speech and the direction of the President, Minister of Religious Affairs, and government officials.

    Books IndonesiaAlasan ban Ahmadiyya Movement in it is deemed contrary to the Pan-Pancasila, especially the first precepts of Pancasila, which is "Belief in God Almighty." According to the Ahmadiyya, these precepts, in principle, emphasizing that a person or entity who believe in God the Almighty assured its survival in the Republic of Indonesia. Pancasila does not determine whether the belief in one God is inside or outside of Islam, inside or outside Christianity, inside or outside the Buddha. All were included in the summary of the first precepts of Pancasila.

    Meanwhile, the ban is considered contrary to the Constitution of 1945, for in article 29 paragraph 1 stated that "the State based upon belief in one supreme God" and in paragraph 2 also confirmed that "The State guarantees the independence of each resident for the me- hugged each of his religion and to worship according to religion and belief ". Ahmadis are also basing his opinion on the explanation of article 29 paragraph 2 that religious freedom is the most fundamental rights of human rights other.

    At a time when Indonesia was under the government of President Abdurrahman Wahid (Gus Dur), the situation has changed. One thing that is valued positively in the government of Gus Dur is a commitment to one's right to religion. He gave the opportunity openly to the religious previous yamg expressly prohibited. Djohan Effendi, Secretary of State government era Wahid and former Head of Research and Development Department of Religious Affairs, stated that President Abdurrahman Wahid is a pluralist, so he gives the climate is more open and democratic. In addition, Djohan also argued that the shape of one's understanding of the religion or the other can not be prohibited pemerintah.8 However, according to KH. Irfan Zidny-Chairman of the MUI Fatwa Commission of Jakarta, who also serves as caretaker for Research and Consultancy Institute of Islamic Sharia MUI - still hope for Indonesian Muslims wary of the flow int he also said, "In matters relating to worldly affairs, we can only work with their organization. After all, it is very well done, even with anyone. However, in a matter of theological Ahmadiyah Qadian we keep saying it violates Islamic teachings'?

    While Dawam Rahardjo, director of the International Forum on Islamic Studies (IFIs) and one of the chairman of Muhammadiyah, it is argued that the teaching is a good example of religious organizations. The organization is well organized and independent. They take care of myself and bustle of political life, but it is not sensitive to the political. He further stated, "We should be working with this organization and have a great appreciation of him.
That's a little summary of a book called Ahmadiyya Movement in Indonesia, which was written by prof. Dr. Iskandar Zulkarnain which thoroughly explores how travel Ahmadiyah in Indonesia. Books that reveal the Ahmadiyya objectively as thought and movement in the context of overall development of Islamic movements in Indonesia. This book is not intended to support or reject the parties that the pros and cons, but to sit in proportion to the Ahmadiyya movement in thought and mind maps and the Islamic movement in Indonesia. Ahmadiyah became the talk is quite tough and eventually lead to rioting incident with the attack on the Ahmadiyah members Cikeusik, Pandeglang, Banten, February 6, 2011.Related Articles:

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Intercourse Problems Free Men-Women

Intercourse Problems Free Men-Women
I. Meaning promiscuityWhen we review the history in our own country and world history in general, it will show a lot of the same problems, although essentially the same event different time. In the story of Romeo and Juliet romance that well-known, which tells a love story in the days of the past, it is clear that at that time in Europe there is no association that is free.Also from the autobiography of queen-queen and royal family members, a princess is not acquainted with the prince when he proposed.
They had met after the application is received. Which party has not disputed that apply, pangerankah party or parties puterikah. Marriage is a result of negotiations between the state and the royal family concerned.
Sparkling World (clubbing)
The same was seen in the Eastern hemisphere continents. The examples are countless can we draw from our own country's history. Even if the memories of their parents can still reach deep into their ancestral history, surely the same will be found too, that men and women hardly know each other before marriage or family consent is reached and they entered the wedding lives.
Indeed, from a variety of examples and comparisons earlier era can be said that the "other other first right now." Because there are differences between the era to era, it also faced other problems.

Previously there was no school psychologist, who must complete a personal issue school students low, medium and above or in Universities. Even the schools only accept male students. Opportunity to attend school for many children a woman has not enjoyed in some countries in Asia.
Thankfully, Indonesia is one country in Asia that has become a pioneer for educational opportunities and accomplishment in the school is open to young girls and boys.
Thanks to the emancipation of women leaders R.A. Kartini and other mothers who have fought for the fate of women, men and women obtain the same educational opportunities. By obtaining the right to education and schooling opportunities are equal between men and women, of course, easily interwoven promiscuity among men and women. Women are no longer secluded, no longer obtain a limited lessons and teaching in their own homes. Women young and old can leave rumali to study at sekolali in other cities and even abroad without the direct supervision of parents concerned.
Given the same opportunity to attend school, the men and women can meet face to be free. They can discuss, discuss issues related to the lessons at school. Issues discussed ranged certainly not always just about learning and education in schools. One's life also includes other aspects in addition to education. Other aspects kellidupan often Pula causing problems then discussed together.
Since education in kindergarten, already seen that there are certain children are often clustered. They feel themselves fit and appropriate, so that every time when given the opportunity to play they would get together and hang out with friends who are always the same. When they were kids not seen a clear difference between male and female children. They gathered with friends who fit no matter the type, male or female.
At one point seen later that the grouping is more common among children alike. Son women prefer to hang out and tell her guts on women friends, and peers child getting mad men playing with girls, because they are more fun to play rough. They do not like the softness and smoothness of young girls. Moreover, female children is difficult to stem the flow of tears, so often scorned by male friends.
Although it was the association between men and women will be allowed but restrict their own friends with similar sepergaulannya only. Association with the opposite type of feeling is not happy, is not peaceful and awkward. Instead of friends gave a kind of pleasure which was looking for and can only be obtained from the same friends, male or female.
Only in the next period will arise more freely mingle, mingle with male friends and female friends. Curiosity of young people are also focused on curiosity will be the friends of another kind. Want to know this is accommodated in promiscuity. In a free society, youth are able to find out about the nature and personality of his friends. From the diversity of friends acquired through free association he gained extensive knowledge about the specific qualities of women and men as well as distinctive features of these maing.Is that free association can be interpreted association that is free from everything. Free association without regard to moral values ​​and social? Humans are social beings who are responsible. Humans as social beings who are responsible not possible to live free from everything. Humans are able to live free from the shackles of oppression, freedom from fear, freedom from persecution, freedom from physical and psychological suffering. But man can not live apart from the relationship, either directly or indirectly, from other individuals. Reasonable man can not live without responsibility.
People can mingle freely but in an attachment to social. Humans live in the attachment of responsibility for social welfare. Also young people can mingle freely, but must not ignore social responsibility.
In a free society, hanging out with anyone, anywhere, anytime, always keep in mind:1) The responsibility for the welfare of fellow human beings.2) Respect the rights and dignity of women and men.3) Hold fast to the social norms, moral values ​​and ethics, and legal norms.
Promiscuity among men and women can become socially that is not free anymore. At one point her social narrowed and only includes two people, a boy and a girl.Promiscuity means that extensive interactions among many young men and women. Does not emphasize the grouping of a compact between two people, but among many youth. Who had limited interaction between the two young people would mean the existence of a peculiarity, so people say that both this young couple dating.
Recognizing Adolescent turmoil.
Advising teens not as easy to advise the children. They no longer a kindergarten or elementary school child who can sit when the parents speak. Adolescent age, which began about 14 years, is the age in which humans have so banvak changes in both organs tubuhnva and on psychological aspects. Those who awalnva children, then enter the period of puberty, followed by the period sclanjutnya, where hormones strongly influence the physical and psychological, tend to experience a variety of turbulence temperament.
Juvenile Delinquency
There was a time the kids quiet, suddenly become talkative and jaunty as a teenager. Or the reverse, turned into a quiet and shy, but when the kids used to hang out is very clever. Why is that? For indeed scjak puberty, a child will change the character. This condition is somewhat kehingungan memhuat menghadapinva parents because their properties vary according to mood.
Trying to advise their meaning must be very clever to read the "battlefield", set the strategy to avoid misunderstandings. Because, when it's a misunderstanding, bukannva good communication is established but the quarrel. Tnengenali better we used to like what the old adolescent behavior bear all of this: sort children, has been inappropriate, not yet spelled out any adult.These early adolescent will usually have the following characteristics:
Worried about the physical developmentChildren will experience the anxiety, due to notable physical changes, ie, Adam's apple grow, the hairs on the entire body, as well as whiskers, and having wet dreams. When I was a junior high school, they still wear shorts, so that the feathers on the legs would seem clear, and fair if they were so embarrassed due to teasing friends. Sounds too changed, becoming "cracked". This is all due to start its dominant hormone testosterone.
While in girls, menstruation began more regularly, sometimes accompanied by pain and posing. Increasingly enlarged breasts. All of the changes it made him anxious, afraid to be known by other friends, shunned, and so uncomfortable own.
Strong appetite stimulusDue to hormone fluctuations, they increasingly feel the sexual appetite stimulation. There are two types of responses, which become highly reactive, or even ashamed, and hid it. Just heard the story a little grazed in the direction of sex alone, was excited and very curious. Most teenagers would have been very male opponent once locked eyes with jenis.Tiap children have different responses, are also changing. At this age, their libido is also volatile, easily aroused by the slightest things smelling of sex. This is why parents perk gives basic morals, ethics, and religion, because without the foundation that children tend to be easily tempted. Sexual orientation began to take shape. If not properly directed by a parent, can occur in cases where the child being gay or lesbian, even bisexual.
Make an appearanceAs a result of physical changes that, so this young teen posing with her appearance. There are trying to cover the changes earlier, there is also a fact wanted to nonjolkannya with pride and feel different from other friends who have not experienced. So do not be surprised if they become very concerned about the appearance, linger in front of the mirror, lock myself in my room, diligent to the salon, and shopping for fashionable clothes.
II. DatingWhen we see the physical growth of young people, then we get the impression that they are having a great height growth. Youth, not just equal the height of their parents, even exceeding. Teenagers already looks physically mature and want to match the per-adult-made actions. Also the influence of literature, magazines, romance books and movies causes youth to imitate the ways of behavior and communication that they can be copied easily. The most easy to imitate it "game of love" that many take as the core than the movie. Top of imitation is seen in the association between young people that is going out.
Often the question arises, bail: the parents or the sons and daughters, whether dating is justifiable or not. This question is difficult to answer. In answering this question always must be considered some fak tor:a) Age of the young people involved in the courtship.b) The nature of courtship.c) The degree of courtship.
a. AgeAge factor is very important. The older the youth, they are also expected to show more maturity. Maturity level is necessary so that they can consider with good nature and extent of dating in relation to the limits of decency. Increasingly younger age, more and more difficult to consider the limits of decency and time sharing. Often seen students S.M.P. have started hanging out too close with a friend the other types. He also mingle too closely with friends of a kind. Association that is too close to the opposite sex and meetings that are too often with friends like, talking and playing music without limit of time, eventually causing the decline in school achievement. Report card with red numbers cause 'association child "or" courting "the blame.
From this example it is clear that age. who are too young cause of the underprivileged youth in limiting self-indulgence, not to restrict ourselves in the division of time studying and recreation. They prefer the recreational and hanging out with his friends, eventually learning task driven and received less attention. Young people who've grown up and still have not learned to limit myself to a strict division of time will experience failure in school. Thus a given age of maturity to be able to consider something, must be accompanied by self-discipline in terms of time studying, working and recreation as well as in the appropriate division of tasks and interactions.
b. The nature of courtshipPromiscuity, often begins with the association commonly known as dating. Maybe just two young people who come home from school and the direction of his journey to their homes, when home together then it is said to courtship. Learn and study together, have raised concerns on the parents because they imagined a "marriage". Though this association, in fact hanva a friendship or acquaintance a little more than usual. Actually, the association for businesses to know more profound need to increase knowledge about the individuals who will face later in adulthood.
There are times when a young man visited a young woman to borrow at record lessons. A young man helping a friend sekclasnya with mathematical problems. A young woman helping classmates with homework male foreign language.Upon their return the young man young woman was scolded their parents and boyfriends are not allowed to cross the threshold that house again, "do not deserve the kids who are still in school are going out."
It is totally inappropriate that school students have started dating, but adulthood and possible marriage is still too far away. However, whether the association in order to learn together is called dating?
From the examples approximately match with this example then it really depends on the people who assess the "courtship" is. When two young people who seem friendly are said to dating, it can be said that it was courting the lightest level. Thus, to avoid the ban will parents dating, then you should learn together done in groups of odd numbers ie, for example three or five people. Sesunggulinya courtship also include other elements, not just gather to learn, but there is an element of pleasure from the atmosphere when the two of that. There are feelings of rage arising from circumstances that meeting. As if there were "electrical currents" on both types were different beings. And the state is called "going out". Every touch, as if the cause electrical flow.
c. Level courtshipIf further feeling began to arise with the dating likened to an electric charge, then the distance between the two individuals who are experiencing will determine the level of courtship. The closer, the greater the likelihood of contact that can cause "kortsluiting" or the power that gave spark the fire of love-interest.
Similar to "kortsluiting" on electricity, then the flow can be useful and give power but can also bring danger of destructive fires, if not properly prepared and distributed.
Thus, youth, young adults are still far from being the ability to form a family, should be very careful with "playing with fire of love". Need to always remember the distance which must be maintained for the sake of "security" by both parties.Better to keep vigilant for the sake of peace and quiet. Often-times they are proud of the strength of conscience, eventually "burn" and fall because of momentary inadvertence. In the atmosphere of courtship vigilance must be tightened and faith should be strengthened in order to distance themselves from the temptations and distractions that easily arise and in order to attain the noble ideals.
Book- Psychology For Youth By Dr. Singgih D.gunarsa- Protecting Children From Sex Free By Merry Magdalena
- http://www.jevuska.com

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Secrets of Success and Progress of Japanese People

Secrets of Success and Progress of Japanese People
After Hiroshima and Nagasaki atomic bomb devastated hit ally (America), Japan slowly but surely managed to rise. Would not want to be recognized at this time Japan along with China and South Korea have become Asian tiger in the field of technology and economics. Thank God I had the opportunity 10 years living in Japan to pursue my studies. In a previous article I tried to photograph the Japanese from one side. This time, I tried to formulate the 10 recipes that make the Japanese people can be successful as now. Of course this formulation on several sides somewhat subjective, just from life experience, study, business and interact with Japanese people around perfecture Saitama, Tokyo, Chiba, Yokohama. The point we tried to learn the good side of Japan that could be taken to build this republic. When asked if all sides of the Japanese people are always good, of course the answer is no. There are also many negative culture that does not have to us an example;)
1. HARD WORK
It is no secret that the Japanese people are hard workers. Average working hours of employees in Japan is 2450 hours / year, is very high compared with America (1957 hours / year), UK (1911 hours / year), Germany (1870 hours / year), and France (1680 hours / year) . An employee in Japan could produce a car in 9 days, while workers in other states require 47 days to make the car worth the same. A Japanese worker can arguably do the work normally done by 5-6 people. Home quickly is something that can be said the â € œagak memalukanâ €? in Japan, and indicates that these employees, including â € œThe not dibutuhkanâ €? by the company. In college, professors are also used to come home that night (actually morning;)), make the students did not enjoy home first. The phenomenon of karoshi (death due to hard work) may only exist in Japan. Most of the literature mentions that this is true with hard work and prosperity of Japan's revival can be achieved.
2. SHY
Shame is the ancestral culture and the Japanese people from generation to generation. Harakiri (suicide by sticking a knife into the stomach) becomes a ritual since the era of the samurai, when they lost and battles. Log into the modern world, the discourse a little change to the phenomenon of â € œmengundurkan diriâ €? for officials (ministers, politicians, etc.) involved in the problem of corruption or feel like a failure of their duties. Possible negative effects are the children of elementary, junior high school who sometimes commit suicide, because its value is ugly or not the next grade. Embarrassed instructions in Japanese people prefer to choose a detour rather than interfere with the driver behind the cut line in the middle of the road. How to automatically direct them to form a queue in each state that requires, buying a train ticket, entrance to the stadium to watch football, at the bus stop, even to use public toilets at stations, they were neatly lined up waiting their turn. They are ashamed of their environment when they break the rules or norms that have become common agreement.
3. Scrimp
The Japanese have a zest for life-saving in everyday life. Excessive anti-consumerism attitude is apparent in many areas of life. In the early days of starting life in Japan, I was astonished with the number of Japanese people crowded shopping at the supermarket at around 19:30 hours. Inquired have inquired, it has become commonplace that the supermarkets in Japan will cut prices up to half in about half an hour before closing. As it is known that in Japan Supermarket average closes at 20:00. Another example is the housewives who are willing to ride a bike to the grocery store a bit far from home, just because it's cheaper 20 or 30 yen. Many Japanese families who do not own a car, not because it is not capable, but because it is more efficient to use buses and trains to travel. Including time to think why I used to use kerosene space heaters are troublesome still loved, but enough with the existing air conditioning cold and hot mode. The reason was one, kerosene is cheaper than electricity. Japanese professor also used to ride an old bike to campus, together with his students.
4. LOYALTY
Loyalty to make a career in a company's systems running and neatly arranged. Slightly different from the system in America and Europe, are very rare Japanese who move jobs. They usually stay in one or two companies until retirement. This may be the implications of Industry in Japan that most would only accept fresh graduate, who then train and educate their own specific areas of arable (core business) companies. City Hofu perhaps an obvious example. Hofu was once a very industrial city left behind by residents who are too dense. Loyalty residents to stay afloat (do not go out of town) and have a shared commitment to work hard day and night eventually change Hofu become prosperous and modern city. Even today the best industrial city with a production of around 160,000 vehicles per year.
5. INNOVATION
Japan is not the inventor, but the Japanese have an edge in finding people mix and then market it in the form of a demand by the public. Interesting reading the story of Akio Morita, who developed the legendary Sony Walkman that. Tape Cassete not invented by Sony, the patent is owned by Phillips Electronics company. But that successfully developed and membundling portable model as a product that is booming for decades, Akio Morita, founder and CEO of Sony at that time. Until 1995, there were more than 300 models of walkman was born and the total production reached 150 million products. Mechanical assembly of four-wheeled vehicles are also not created by the Japanese, his patent owned by an American. But it was Japan with innovative vehicle assembly industry can develop a faster and cheaper. Cars produced is also relatively cheap, lightweight, easy to drive, easy to maintain and more fuel efficient. Matsushita Electric Company formerly known as â € œmaneshitaâ €? (Imitator) has its own legend with his bread-making machine. Innovation and ideas from a engineernya named Ikuko Tanaka took the initiative to imitate the technique of making bread from sheef at Osaka International Hotel, produce work of bread making machine (home bakery) Matsushita brand is famous for.
6. Unyielding
History proves that the Japanese including a resilient nation and never give up. Decades under the Tokugawa empire that covers the access to overseas, Japan is very behind in technology. When the Meiji Restoration (Meiji Ishin) came, the Japanese quickly adapt and become a fast-learner. Poverty is not natural resources to make Japan surrender. Not only the importer of petroleum, coal, iron ore and timber, even 85% of Japan's energy sources come from other countries including Indonesia. Reportedly, Indonesia needs to stop the supply of petroleum, then 30% of Japanese will pitch black:) The series of disasters occurred in 1945, starting from the atomic bombs on Hiroshima and Nagasaki, Japan followed with a losing war, and added in the presence of a major earthquake in Tokyo. Apparently Japan is not finished. In the next few years Japan has managed to build the automotive industry and even the fast train (shinkansen). Probably pretty amazing how Konosuke Matsushita, which business were destroyed and nearly out of business electronic equipment in 1945 are still able to crawl, starting from scratch to build the industry to become a business empire in the contemporary era. Akio Morita was also originally to be laughed at when offering products that tiny Cassete Tapenya to various other countries. But eventually a legend with his Sony Walkman. What is also quite unique that the science and theory in which people must learn from this failure began to be formulated in Japan with shippaigaku name (the science of failure). Sometime I will peel more about this:)
7. CULTURE READ
Do not be surprised if you come to Japan and into densha (electric train), most of the passengers both children and adults are reading books or newspapers. No matter sitting or standing, many of which utilize the time in densha to read. Many publishers are starting to make man-ga (comics) curriculum materials for both elementary school, junior high and high school. Lessons of History, Biology, Language, etc. are presented with interesting people who make the higher interest in reading. I once discussed the problem of educational comic on this blog. Read the Japanese culture is also supported by the speed in the process of translation of foreign books (english, french, german, etc.). The legend says that the legend translation of foreign books has been started in the year 1684, as the construction of the institute of translation and continues to grow until the modern era. Usually the Japanese translation of the book is available in a few weeks since its foreign books published. I used to buy books literature Japanese translation because the price is cheaper than the original book (english).
8. COOPERATION GROUP
Culture in Japan not too accommodate the work which are too individualistic. Including claims of work, usually intended for team or group. This phenomenon not only in the world of work, the condition of the campus with his research lab is like that, do the task subjects are usually also in the form of the group. Working in groups may be one of the greatest strengths of the Japanese. There are anecdotes that â € œ1 professor of Japanese people to be inferior to one American professor, only 10 people American professor will not be able to beat 10 people the Japanese professor who berkelompokâ €??. Consensus agreement or often referred to as â € œrin-gia €? is a ritual in the group. Strategic decisions must be discussed in the â € œrin-gia €??.
9. MANDIRI
From an early age children are trained to become independent. Ershad, most big my child had felt the kindergarten (Yochien) in Japan. He must bring 3 large bags containing clothes, bento (lunch packet), dressing shoes, books, towels and a big bottle of drink that hangs around her neck. In Yochien every child trained to bring their own equipment, and are responsible for their own belongings. Remove the high school and enter college most of do not ask the cost to parents. My friend's apartment contemporary at Saitama University before relying on part-time work for school fees and daily life. Even if the money ran out, they œmeminjamâ € â €? money to the parents that they will return in the next month.
10. MAINTAIN TRADITION
Technological development and economic, did not make the Japanese lose tradition and culture. Culture married woman not to work and live there today. Cultural sorry still a reflex of the Japanese. If one day you ride a bike in Japan and hit a pedestrian, then do not be surprised if we hit instead of apologizing first. Until now the Japanese relative œtidakâ avoid saying â € €? for if it gets an offer from someone else. So we must be careful in their dealings with Japanese people because â €?? Haiâ €? œyaâ not necessarily â € €? for the Japanese;) Agriculture is an ancestral tradition and an important asset in Japan. Intense competition for entry of Thai and U.S. rice are cheap, do not discourage the Japanese government's measures to protect the farmers. They say the land is agricultural land used to get significant tax reductions, including a few other incentives for those who still survive in the world of agriculture. Japanese agriculture is one of the highest in the world.
Perhaps such a successful 10 recipes that I can rangkumkan. The Indonesian nation has almost all Japanese recipes above, just maybe we have not mengasahnya well. In Japan, Indonesia, including an excellent student and even beat Japanese college students. People Indonesia also won numerous international awards berlevel. I'm sure there are factors œnon-teknisâ â € €? which makes Indonesia a bit slumped in technology and economics. Let us together find solutions to various problems of this republic. And lastly we must remain willing to learn and accept the kindness from anyone.
Stay in the Struggle!
Written By: Romi Satria Wahono

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Or Delinquency Juvenile Delinquency Parents

Or Delinquency Juvenile Delinquency Parents
Lately more and more widespread phenomenon of juvenile delinquency. Even this has been happening since the first. The expert psychologist always peeling problem that never end to this. Juvenile Delinquency, like a black circle that never end. Link connects from time to time, from time to time, from year to year and even from day to day more complicated. Problem of adolescent acquaintances are complex problems that occur in various cities in Indonesia. In line with the current of modernization and technology is growing, then the current relations between the major cities and regions semkain smooth, quick and easy. World of increasingly sophisticated technology, in addition to ease in knowing various information in various media, on the other hand also carries a considerable negative impact extends in various walks of life.
Juvenile delinquency is usually done by teens who failed to undergo the processes of development of his soul, both as a teenager and in his childhood. Childhood and adolescence lasts so briefly, with their physical, psychological, and emotional too quickly. Psychologically, juvenile delinquency is a manifestation of the conflicts are not resolved well on childhood and adolescent perpetrators. Often found that there was trauma in her past, harsh and unpleasant treatment of the environment, as well as trauma to the environmental conditions, such as economic conditions which made him feel inferior.
Deal with juvenile delinquency, it means re-arrange teenage emotions were torn. Emotions and feelings are corrupted because they feel rejected by family, parents, friends, and the environment since childhood, and the failure of the process of development of the adolescent soul. Traumas in his life must be resolved, psychological conflicts that hanging should be resolved, and they should be given a different environment than the previous environment. The question is: who is it all work? Parents Did? While parents are too dizzy to think about work and other living expenses. Was his brother? They also have their own problems, maybe even they also have the same problem. Was the Government? Or who? Not easy to answer. However, providing a good environment from an early age, along with an understanding of the development of our children properly, will help reduce juvenile delinquency. At least not increase the number of cases. "(Source Whandi.net / 1 jan 1970).
Juvenile delinquency, is one of the child? or parents? Because there are many parents who can not act as a parent should. They only provide materials and facilities and facilities for the child without thinking of his inner needs. Parents also often requires a lot of things but forget to set a good example for the child. Actually we forget something when talking about juvenile delinquency, the law of causality. Because, from the delinquency of a juvenile is always crystallized towards external environmental factors that are rarely noticed the closest of environmental factors in this adolescent parents. We always considered that many cases of juvenile delinquency occurs because of poor social environment, such as the influence of friends that are not true, the influence of mass media, to the weakness of one's faith.
When we talk about faith, we question the value and usually forget something, namely the influence of parents. Educated parents who either could be a major factor of onset delinquency sosiopsikologis on myself a teenager. Moreover, if the negative case against the parents of the teenagers, like infidelity, divorce and division of property-gini Gono. Maybe we need to take a new term, parental delinquency.
Parents, often forget that attitude resulted in his children. Because life is not separated from contek-cheating behavior ever. Can also because there is the omission of the behaviors that lead to mistakes, so that one becomes a habit. Parents do not expect him to be good, if parents themselves have not become good. Actually conscience generasai want to call on the â € œJangan teach us of cheating, do not teach us talk dirty, dishonest, lazy learning, lazy worship, too much loved treasure belebihan and forget the Creator, namely Allah.â €?
This paper invites reflection for us as parents, that delinquency is not always synonymous with youth, but that much mischief is done by parents (at home, in society and in government), which eventually also became the inspiration for teenage mischief. Pathetic indeed! (O. Solihin source)
Delinquency parents in family ties
Examples include:
Like say harsh words, like blasphemy or cursing, teach children to fight as child harassed another person, likes to hurt the child physically and psychologically, smoking casually in front of children, dl (moral issues).
Ignoring the implementation of Shari'a, the prayer for example, many of us are also parents who neglect their prayers, neglect their prayers, not even pray, let the kids do not shut aurat daughter, letting her children get along free (dating), letting their children drink-drink hard, etc..

Delinquency parents in the community
Examples include:
Creating an atmosphere that is not productive (their fathers), for example the morning, noon and night gaple like to hang out while playing, or playing chess, even though no use of money, this is the same meaning does not guard her honor, let alone honor of his family (wife and children son)? While the mother-love to get together while his mother berghibah or defamatory, spending money with a consumptive lifestyle that is shopping at the mall or supermarket, luxury lifestyle.Providing a means of disobedience, for example, be a drug dealer, so the bookies, providing a place of entertainment (discotheques).
Educators who are negligent, we can see at school or in college, though educational institution is a safe place to gain knowledge or learning, but in reality many educators are giving a bad example to their students, such immoral acts, persecute protege physically, to sell the material or knowledge for the benefit of education often do sin.Being the owner of the mass media (both print and electronic: newspapers, magazines, tabloids, radio, television, and also the internet) that â € ~ hobiâ € ™ featuring readings, image and spectacle that damage the morals (pornography, violence, and sex) that refuge in the name of the business.
Parental delinquency in governmentExamples include:Like corruption, adopted a policy of raising the cost of education, raise fuel prices, high health care costs, like making promises and then forget about it, like doing the extortion or bribery.Like perpetuate disobedience, gave permission for the business of prostitution / brothel, gambling, a discotheque, liquor factory, on the pretext of its revenue.Blind eye to the problem that caused the business of prostitution, gambling, drugs, liquor circulation, discos, etc..Applying the rules of life that is not true and good, that is Capitalism, Secularism (including Socialism-Communism).
Let us describe one by one advice or advice that we give as parents to our children when we do and not do it:


    We prohibit our children to speak harshly, even though we often speak harshly to our children.

    We prohibit our children brawl or a light hand, and yet we are often persecuted them our children physically, we like to fight in front of our children, like fist fights on the forums when it honored the legislature building in session since they do not agree, that the witness our children live on television.

    We prohibit our children to lie or be honest, but how many lies that we create for our children.

    We prohibit our children taking drugs, even though we own are the users and drug dealers themselves.

    We prohibit our children to mingle freely or going out, when we ourselves are doing the same mix of good free environment of the community, as well as an office environment that is familiar with cheating.

    We prohibit our children drinking and gambling, yet we are the bookies and owners of factories and menuman hard drinker and gambler.

    We prohibit our children to smoke, but dirikita have often burn the money, with smoke in front of their eyes, and we also sell cigarettes and cigarette factory owner.

    We're angry when your child does not pray, or worship, but we like dereliction of duty did not even perform the prayer.

    We advise that our children do not consume pornography impressions, whereas dirikita often watching, reading, accessing porn sites, even we who have the print media, playwright, media buying pornography.

    We prohibit our children to watch television constantly, yet we consume the most major broadcast television to no sleep.

    We often advise our children not to berghibah or slander other people, but who likes berghibah dirikitalah and defame it.

    We are angry when they find out our children and often hang out tonight, but we also do the same thing, sometimes a new Fajr time to go home.

    We advise our children to school diligently, but we too lazy to work, even often absent from the office.

    We complain about why our children are lazy to read, and yet we are also very rarely have a habit of reading.

    We often teach their children that we not fight to his parents, when we used to also like to fight against our parents.

    We are angry when we know children love to steal, and yet we are often stealing state money, or who do not often get a kosher fortune.


And much more naughtiness that we do as parents, who can not mention here. May we not included and have never done mischief as described above. Amen. So what went wrong with the child or juvenile delinquency, would not he very directly proportional to contact us as parents? Wallahuâ € ™ nature

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Lifestyle Youth Collaboration, Literature, Media and Internet
Literature for urban youth is not represented by literary writers of the generation of Putu Wijaya until Linda Christanty though. Literature for urban youth is also not a literary newspaper, literary magazines such as Horizon, as well as cultural journals that contain short stories, poetry, and essays seriously. Literature is a literary association of urban adolescents who expressed in new mediums inherent in their lifestyle. Literature urban teenagers today is something completely independent of the chain of previous literary history. History of literature I mean the official version of literary history the critics, theorists, academics and writers themselves. This official literary history as well as history in general in favor of the interests of certain powers to the charge of subjectivity which is also thick in his historiography. In the context of urban adolescents in real terms, in fact so-called mainstream literature does not even exist. There is a very distant gap between literature and real life urban youth today.
Medium-medium of literary expression in the lifestyle of urban youth is now more or less a deconstruction of the medium of the previous expression that occurs as a result of technological developments. Pretension to write a literary work is no longer based on the motivation of big dreams, the ideas of rebellion, as well as gifted ideas to change the world. Urban adolescents now simply write on their blog about personal things daily picayune, send sms romantic at her boyfriend, or create a love song lyric that also simple. That is the medium of literary expression-medium urban youth today. On the other hand the authors generations "old" still preoccupied with dreams, confidence, arrogance, and great ideas to give birth to a magnum opus in "history" their authorship. Without realizing it, the gap is getting steep and deep, reminiscent of the criticisms decades ago about the ivory tower of his writers and artists as a whole.
Of course the problem can not be separated from "the values, criteria, theories" about what is called and considered a "literary". This also is the old problem that continues to hang without a settlement. For some writers, say for example Seno Gumira Ajidarma, Sapardi Djoko Damono, or Budi Darma, the so-called and regarded as "the criteria and values" of literature is relative and subjective. This view gives a wide space of freedom to think and what it is called literature. On the other hand, there are many writers and critics who hold the theory that whatever standard or something in which to mengategorisasikan a work as "literature". The view is then possible to make the books a kind of encyclopedia of Indonesian literature is never complete and intact. In the books were certainly there never was the name of Agni Amorita Goddess for example, teen short story writer of the 80s generation who often fill the sheet of short stories in various magazines and had also become winners of Femina Continue. In the books were certainly there will be no name or Aditya Mulya Raditya Dika, two young novelists today's fans spread among urban youth all over Indonesia. And in the books nor have there name FX Rudy Gunawan, author of short stories, essays, and novels whose works are also frequently published in literary newspaper (non-Compass) and dozens of his books have been published.
This is a stagnation of ironic. Generation of teenagers now feel no need to read literary works that are not noble civilization connects them with real life. There has been a paradigm shift that was never anticipated by the writers. Literature courses in school may be an effort ever undertaken to bridge this gap or melt stagnation. But because the frames that carry the "old mindset" and performed with the "old ways" as well, it can be said of this effort is less successful. A number of high school who attend may be more familiar with writer-poet and his works, but that's only limited results. Yet we now need is to create a new generation of lovers of literature and foster a fertile climate or atmosphere for the birth of a new generation of literary writers, fresh, and completely different.
In urban youth lifestyle now, movies and musiklah the most popular as part of their arts and cultural life. This is evident from the success of the novels that the movie adaptation was conceived and published by the publisher of specialist adolescent novel, GagasMedia. Almost all novel adaptations of national films sold tens of thousands of copies in a matter of months. This novel genre has managed to become part of the lifestyle of urban youth thanks to the collaboration between the world of film and literary world. Collaboration means a tangible interface with life. Collaboration becomes a pattern to melt stagnation and the birth of the "grounded". An ideal example of collaboration from the world of music is rock band Santana geeks who collaborated with the popular teenage singer in their last three albums released in recent years. Awareness of the legendary Santana as a group to stay in tune with the times indeed an exemplary humility in our literary world.
Literature should be part of the lifestyle of urban youth for literature should be part of real life including daily life with all the clutter problem that may be whiny, annoying, and not quality. But on what basis has the right to judge someone like that to the fact that real life? On the basis of what someone or some people have the right to judge a work? There is no single basis that could justify such attitudes. Conversely, it is an erosion of attitudes like that that will be able to integrate the literature in urban adolescent lifestyle.

Adolescent Lifestyle and Media
All types of media, be it Internet, television, movies, music, and magazines, big influence on our lifestyle today. Most of the media informed about adolescent lifestyle of the city, which incidentally mimics a modern lifestyle. So, do not be surprised if we were herded into highly consumptive.
Adolescence is the search for identity. We as young people start looking for a fit lifestyle and taste. We also began looking for an idol or a figure of identification that can be used as role models, both in the search for life style, speaking style, appearance, and others. Receive the effects we have encountered many friends with various attributes that in fact they only imitate it. Still not aware that soap operas are a lot of teens that offers a new lifestyle? The young star who is loved teenager was able to change the style.
During the teen idol is a very strong influence. Idol or figure will control our lives without us knowing it possible. Well, here's where the media
However, is it true that the media in such a bad influence for teens? Actually this is not one hundred percent. This is a challenge for us to sort out or selectively to the messages conveyed by the media. Because, can not be denied that the media presence is absolutely necessary. Because, on one side of the media allows us to know a variety of information, news, discovery, and new things. Or it could be concluded that the actual presence of the media also has positive and negative.
The presence of the media is not separated from the interests of the market. Thus, if we are not selective about the media messages, we will become victims of the media. not one was when we buy a product based on information from the media. However, keep in mind, how should the products we buy it for ourselves. Do we really need it or because our products are affected by the lure of that conveyed by the media.

Teens: Do not force yourself
it never hurts to look nice like that many advertised in the media, with some products offered to help realize that dream. It is also a reasonable thing to go shopping buy things favorite. However, we must remember, do not push yourself. If we follow the development of fashion clothing, for example, if you do not deserve, so do not have to be purchased, should we adjust ourselves. In short does not necessarily follow trends, but the important comfortable in our bodies. The point is important we confident, comfortable with yourself, accept what is, love yourself. In fact, it would be okay again if we can demonstrate the advantages of our other.
Well, explain? The media do have positive and negative impacts. We must be wise to do. How easy is to recognize ourselves and recognize what we think is very important. Recognize what we like, what can we tolerate from other people and things that make us feel steady. If after we consider all different from what the correct version of the media, that means we should immediately take the strategy. So, do not swallow a point-blank what he informed the media that do not simply become victims of the media.

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Teens and Cyber ​​World

Teenagers have never separated from the name lifestyle trends. In terms of psychological, hormonal changes and several physical characteristics that make them very menggandrungi new trends and lifestyles that they had never known before. FaceBook (FB) is one new trend that is currently sweeping many young people in Indonesia in particular. Social networks created by 19-year-old Young was his name skyrocketed over the election of Barack Obama as the new President of the United States. In terms of quality it FaceBook (FB) has advantages compared with Friendster (FS). In terms of that minimalist appearance and weight are not impressed is one of the hallmarks of FaceBook. Not to mention the unique features that do not we meet on Friendster (FS) to attract young people today. Because it is no wonder if the tutorial How to Make FaceBook selling well again sought the teens who want to join a member FaceBook (FB).
Trends in teenage lifestyle is always demanding a rapid change. They do not like things that are static because it FaceBook fully understands the needs of today's teen lifestyle. With some of the advantages possessed by FaceBook FaceBook if it is worthy to enjoy doing by now highly among teenagers to adult. Chat style previously only ask now also quasi-FS addresses questions address FaceBook (FB) as well. However, the number of gossip to some observers is the difficulty FaceBook sponsors who understood better because of the economic crisis that hit the United States. According to rumors circulating FaceBook (FB) threatened out of business because of this problem. Well you know how the fate of millions of MySpace users who began to fall in love with social networking? Just calm, whose name is not necessarily true gossip so enjoy aja first to enjoy the existing facilities in FaceBook (FB). Create a collection of acquaintances who want to add a beautiful girl please, make that would send SMS Love Free via FaceBook too please, or create a more Peaceful Elections Indonesia 2009 campaign through FaceBook as well please. All lawful origin do not play Pocong Oath wrote on FaceBook hehehe

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Lifestyle Youth Collaboration, Literature, Media and Internet

Lifestyle Youth Collaboration, Literature, Media and Internet
Literature for urban youth is not represented by literary writers of the generation of Putu Wijaya until Linda Christanty though. Literature for urban youth is also not a literary newspaper, literary magazines such as Horizon, as well as cultural journals that contain short stories, poetry, and essays seriously. Literature is a literary association of urban adolescents who expressed in new mediums inherent in their lifestyle. Literature urban teenagers today is something completely independent of the chain of previous literary history. History of literature I mean the official version of literary history the critics, theorists, academics and writers themselves. This official literary history as well as history in general in favor of the interests of certain powers to the charge of subjectivity which is also thick in his historiography. In the context of urban adolescents in real terms, in fact so-called mainstream literature does not even exist. There is a very distant gap between literature and real life urban youth today.
Medium-medium of literary expression in the lifestyle of urban youth is now more or less a deconstruction of the medium of the previous expression that occurs as a result of technological developments. Pretension to write a literary work is no longer based on the motivation of big dreams, the ideas of rebellion, as well as gifted ideas to change the world. Urban adolescents now simply write on their blog about personal things daily picayune, send sms romantic at her boyfriend, or create a love song lyric that also simple. That is the medium of literary expression-medium urban youth today. On the other hand the authors generations "old" still preoccupied with dreams, confidence, arrogance, and great ideas to give birth to a magnum opus in "history" their authorship. Without realizing it, the gap is getting steep and deep, reminiscent of the criticisms decades ago about the ivory tower of his writers and artists as a whole.
Of course the problem can not be separated from "the values, criteria, theories" about what is called and considered a "literary". This also is the old problem that continues to hang without a settlement. For some writers, say for example Seno Gumira Ajidarma, Sapardi Djoko Damono, or Budi Darma, the so-called and regarded as "the criteria and values" of literature is relative and subjective. This view gives a wide space of freedom to think and what it is called literature. On the other hand, there are many writers and critics who hold the theory that whatever standard or something in which to mengategorisasikan a work as "literature". The view is then possible to make the books a kind of encyclopedia of Indonesian literature is never complete and intact. In the books were certainly there never was the name of Agni Amorita Goddess for example, teen short story writer of the 80s generation who often fill the sheet of short stories in various magazines and had also become winners of Femina Continue. In the books were certainly there will be no name or Aditya Mulya Raditya Dika, two young novelists today's fans spread among urban youth all over Indonesia. And in the books nor have there name FX Rudy Gunawan, author of short stories, essays, and novels whose works are also frequently published in literary newspaper (non-Compass) and dozens of his books have been published.
This is a stagnation of ironic. Generation of teenagers now feel no need to read literary works that are not noble civilization connects them with real life. There has been a paradigm shift that was never anticipated by the writers. Literature courses in school may be an effort ever undertaken to bridge this gap or melt stagnation. But because the frames that carry the "old mindset" and performed with the "old ways" as well, it can be said of this effort is less successful. A number of high school who attend may be more familiar with writer-poet and his works, but that's only limited results. Yet we now need is to create a new generation of lovers of literature and foster a fertile climate or atmosphere for the birth of a new generation of literary writers, fresh, and completely different.
In urban youth lifestyle now, movies and musiklah the most popular as part of their arts and cultural life. This is evident from the success of the novels that the movie adaptation was conceived and published by the publisher of specialist adolescent novel, GagasMedia. Almost all novel adaptations of national films sold tens of thousands of copies in a matter of months. This novel genre has managed to become part of the lifestyle of urban youth thanks to the collaboration between the world of film and literary world. Collaboration means a tangible interface with life. Collaboration becomes a pattern to melt stagnation and the birth of the "grounded". An ideal example of collaboration from the world of music is rock band Santana geeks who collaborated with the popular teenage singer in their last three albums released in recent years. Awareness of the legendary Santana as a group to stay in tune with the times indeed an exemplary humility in our literary world.
Literature should be part of the lifestyle of urban youth for literature should be part of real life including daily life with all the clutter problem that may be whiny, annoying, and not quality. But on what basis has the right to judge someone like that to the fact that real life? On the basis of what someone or some people have the right to judge a work? There is no single basis that could justify such attitudes. Conversely, it is an erosion of attitudes like that that will be able to integrate the literature in urban adolescent lifestyle.

Adolescent Lifestyle and Media
All types of media, be it Internet, television, movies, music, and magazines, big influence on our lifestyle today. Most of the media informed about adolescent lifestyle of the city, which incidentally mimics a modern lifestyle. So, do not be surprised if we were herded into highly consumptive.
Adolescence is the search for identity. We as young people start looking for a fit lifestyle and taste. We also began looking for an idol or a figure of identification that can be used as role models, both in the search for life style, speaking style, appearance, and others. Receive the effects we have encountered many friends with various attributes that in fact they only imitate it. Still not aware that soap operas are a lot of teens that offers a new lifestyle? The young star who is loved teenager was able to change the style.
During the teen idol is a very strong influence. Idol or figure will control our lives without us knowing it possible. Well, here's where the media
However, is it true that the media in such a bad influence for teens? Actually this is not one hundred percent. This is a challenge for us to sort out or selectively to the messages conveyed by the media. Because, can not be denied that the media presence is absolutely necessary. Because, on one side of the media allows us to know a variety of information, news, discovery, and new things. Or it could be concluded that the actual presence of the media also has positive and negative.
The presence of the media is not separated from the interests of the market. Thus, if we are not selective about the media messages, we will become victims of the media. not one was when we buy a product based on information from the media. However, keep in mind, how should the products we buy it for ourselves. Do we really need it or because our products are affected by the lure of that conveyed by the media.

Teens: Do not force yourself
it never hurts to look nice like that many advertised in the media, with some products offered to help realize that dream. It is also a reasonable thing to go shopping buy things favorite. However, we must remember, do not push yourself. If we follow the development of fashion clothing, for example, if you do not deserve, so do not have to be purchased, should we adjust ourselves. In short does not necessarily follow trends, but the important comfortable in our bodies. The point is important we confident, comfortable with yourself, accept what is, love yourself. In fact, it would be okay again if we can demonstrate the advantages of our other.
Well, explain? The media do have positive and negative impacts. We must be wise to do. How easy is to recognize ourselves and recognize what we think is very important. Recognize what we like, what can we tolerate from other people and things that make us feel steady. If after we consider all different from what the correct version of the media, that means we should immediately take the strategy. So, do not swallow a point-blank what he informed the media that do not simply become victims of the media.

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